Golden Rules:

Rule methodology found here. Click each plus to expand details.

Items to Avoid:

running

Running shoes (unless at gym)

velcro

Velcro

flipflopsbright
Bright
flip-flops

moonboots

Moon boots

platform

Platform

Standard "Can't-Go-Wrong" Suggestions:

Please note: the shoes listed below are example models. We're not advocating any exact make or model of shoe. Each shoe is linked to a vendor offering free shipping and free return shipping - a must if you're going to order shoes online. The 3 vendors are:

Shoebuy.com  

Men's Loafers

A staple of the office, there's not too much to say about these shoes. Any shade of black or brown is fine. You'll be wearing these around work (so go for comfort) or on more casual dates - so nothing too flashy is required i.e. not too pointy, and no fancy buckles.

Men's Skater Sneakers

These are the only running-shoe like footwear you can get away with in non-athletic circumstances. Best to wear these only with jeans or chords - too informal for khakis. Some clubs have a no-sneaker policy so be wary of wearing these for a night on the town.

Men's Sandals & Flip Flops

If you're going to be wearing shorts, it is mandatory you get yourself a pair of these. Nothing else looks quite right. But for the third time, don't wear these with socks!!! One thing to keep in mind - if you're going to wear sandals, you've got to make sure your toe nails are clean.

Men's Dress Shoes

Men's Stock Split Kenneth Cole Reaction - Men's Stock Split

Without this essential item you are doomed to be unfashionable at a variety of important events. Make sure you have some black socks to go with them. Although it is necessary to have a pair of dress shoes, don't wear them with your more casual outfits. Take a pass on shoes with heels greater than one-half of an inch.

Advanced Options:

  • Make sure you wear socks with your shoes (preferably dark in color)
  • Winter boots (leather) should come to just above the ankle. No platforms
  • Some women prefer belt color to match shoe color

 

"Whenever I'm sitting somewhere, I look at guy's shoes."

Gloria, 26, Ph.D. Student

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Try not to buy your shoes from a store with 'Mart' in the name"

Andrea, 27, Teacher